It has been known for centuries that in Tibetan Buddhism, there believe is that birth is the first sign of death. A Buddhist is taught to cherish each and every moment we have, Do we really think or do this ? Maybe not as much as we should, we really do waste many moments in our life and that of others, they say to “Remember that the past is history, the future a mystery and today is a gift, that’s why it’s called the present” how true this is. When we lose someone, this is maybe when this phrase would strike home all to quickly, did we forgive, did we really try to understand them and maybe most importantly did we know them, or did we just scrape the surface. Anyone that means anything to you, should be worth all of these things, should we really wait till this happens, when it is too late to rectify anything,to late for that conversation or just to late for them to know that they were loved by you, this does not always need a conversation, many people cannot do this, but actions as you know speak louder than words, if you feel you are loved, your world is a nicer place to be. 

Many friendships and families are torn apart, over, at the end of the day things that do not warrant this, no matter what it is, love is stronger than pride and bad thoughts, nobody who loves you,will want to hurt you, and if you have already lost someone you loved dearly, you will know that yesterday has gone, and nothing you can do will bring that person or that back. Live your life with love, for today, it truly is a gift, that we should treasure,tomorrow may be too late. A loving heart is a healthy heart, and it is stronger and bigger than you can imagine,open your heart while it is yours to open and others to receive.