Do you really know anyone with no defects what so ever ?.. if you think about it, the most beautiful people in the world have their weak spots, but, if they don’t show it , it’s because they know themselves very well,they accept how they are and love themselves for it, if it was not like this, it is because they are unsure of themselves, if you don’t love yourself you cannot value yourself, you will only see your defects and will be incapable of making your own decisions, which means you always depend on what others think of you, they make the decisions for you and live your life.

People who are unsure of themselves will always be influenced by the people who surround them, family friends etc., these people even allow people to decide what you study, who you go out with, where you work etc.,

If this is not what you want, it is time to take control of your personal situation, your present and future, First of all you must pin point the origin and where this came from, we are all born with qualities and character but it is very important the education we receive as young children.

If you carry things from your childhood, it is time to be brave and face things as they are, fear is no place to live,you have to move forward and leave it behind. You have to take decisions on your own and do not be afraid of failure (this is how we learn) failure is success inside out !! Only by getting out there and having a go, get we get to where we want to go.

Accept yourself, make peace with your body (if your problem lies there) learn how to make the most of yourself, don’t see the defects, pick up on your good points and find the way, to bring them out more.

Have a go, you have to know what you want, dedicate yourself to obtaining your goal, think what you can offer, then prepare yourself to the best of your abilities. If you know where you are going, you are sure of yourself.

True beauty is inside of each one of us, you can feel beauty,but your truth is inside, and has to do with who you are and know what you are worth.

Freedom, start to speak with assurance, start in small circles of friends , give your opinion, this will help you later to speak up for yourself in your workplace or your own decisions.

Love yourself, if you give love, you will receive love,emotion that shows is emotion that comes back to you, if you are the understanding with others and maybe your children, we all make mistakes,but if this is understood the attitude can change and be shown to others.

Promise yourself eternal love………….love always