LOVE / OBSESSION………………………………

Obsession

Are you loved or are you part of an obsession, many people believe that they are the same ! But for those that have truly loved and are loved will know the difference with no hesitation, love, true love is full of trust , it gives you freedom and is based on everyday reality, love is free and wants to be shared, and gives, love wants the best for you.

On the other hand, Obsession is full of jealousy and insecurities, they wish to possess you and is a fantasy and not in a good way, obsession is clingy and uncomfortable, it is needy and just wants you.

Manic lovers are obsessive, over jealous about anything and everything, obsessive partners are irrational and treat you as a possession they are constantly consumed by thoughts of their partner as to what they are doing and where , they are unable to live in peace, they need constant attention and affection and the feel of togetherness,but that of a loving couple ! Their kind of “love” is intense. 

They are always looking to put their love to the test, they push way beyond the boundaries established by a normal loving couple, this is all for the sake of assurance on their part. They cannot take any form of criticism from their partner, they are very hypersensitive and can  at times act with violence and are always on the defense, their reaction to separation even if it be for working purpose can be that of instant panic……………

As you can imagine, life and living with a person dealing with obsession is extremely difficult and in fact takes half of your life away, a feeling of total suffocation takes over and the whole experience is a continual struggle, which builds up a feeling of total rejection for the other person, you do not wish to spend time with them and feel this claustrophobic lifestyle, where every movement and gesture is analysed by them.

Stepping into the world of love , full of positive people and attitudes is a breath of fresh air, away from the negativity  and the world of obsession.

Wishing you a happy free loving life ❤

Brooke Universal Life Coach

theutopiauniverse@gmail.com

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About theutopiauniverse

It's time to payback all the good in our lives,to pass to each other everything we have learned,the knowledge we have stored within, and the love we have to share. I am a fully qualified Psychologist,Life Coach,Performance Consultant & LOA Practitioner. I have shared this blog with everyone since February 2013, I have been able to help many,but also been helped by many,this I am truly grateful for and thank everyone for your support and advice.Should you wish to contact me, please feel free to do so,my email is open to you all. I look forward to hearing from you.
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4 Responses to LOVE / OBSESSION………………………………

  1. Interesting… Amazing piece

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