When human intelligence and human goodness or affection are used together, all human actions become constructive. When we combine a warm heart with knowledge and education, we can learn to respect other’s views and other’s rights. This becomes the basis of a spirit of reconciliation that can be used to overcome aggression and resolve our conflict. So, no matter how much violence or how many bad things we have to go through. I believe that the ultimate solution to our conflicts, both internal and external, lies in returning to our basic or underlying human nature, which is gentle and compassionate.
I look at any human being from a more positive angle; I try to look for their positive aspects. This attitude immediately creates a feeling of affinity, a kind of connectedness.
His Holiness the Dalai Lama